Being that I am mostly attracted to other (male-bodied) femmes I can pass as a lesbian or two straight girls making out to make straight boys get turned on, but I usually don't like straight boys and I'm also an independent fucker so I'm usually alone and than straight boys sometimes say: "Fuck, I thought that was a girl, I got turned on" and I don't say Thank You, I say Fuck You as in: FUCK Patriarchy, FUCK Heteronormativity, FUCK the gender-binary and FUCK for liberation, despite all the bullshit that these things have done to you and (Audre) Lorde knows that I have been dealt my share of that.
Just cuz my body has been raped, assaulted, harassed does not mean it will always be a source of pain! Together we can heal, regroup and fight back and experience pleasure and happiness on the way there AND as a way there!
Pleasure alone and/or together, depending on what you want or feel ready to open up to at that moment. For a sex-positive feminist movement that understands and acknowledges that things aren't always so easy for everybody - painful experiences can harm but also be overcome.
Oh, and fuck the (Gender-binary) norm that femmes are supposed to be attracted to masculinities and not femininities.